John Curran’s We Don’t Live Here Anymore (2004) is a poignant exploration of marriage, infidelity, and the fragility of human connections. Based on two short stories by Andre Dubus, the film delves into the lives of two married couples entangled in a web of betrayal and unspoken desires.

The narrative centers on Jack (Mark Ruffalo) and Terry (Laura Dern) and their close friends Hank (Peter Krause) and Edith (Naomi Watts). As Jack and Edith embark on an affair, their respective marriages unravel, exposing the vulnerabilities, frustrations, and unmet expectations of all four characters. The film doesn’t shy away from the raw and often uncomfortable truths of relationships, making it a compelling yet challenging watch.

The performances are stellar across the board. Laura Dern shines as Terry, conveying a complex mix of anger, despair, and resilience, while Mark Ruffalo’s portrayal of Jack is equally nuanced, capturing the torment of a man torn between passion and guilt. Naomi Watts and Peter Krause bring depth to their characters, highlighting the emotional toll of their actions.

What sets the film apart is its refusal to pass judgment on its characters. Instead, it offers an intimate and empathetic look at their flawed humanity. The script, co-written by Larry Gross, is sharp and introspective, while Curran’s direction creates a somber, almost claustrophobic atmosphere that mirrors the characters’ emotional turmoil.